(Note: This is Part 3, and the final chapter, in what became a three-part series. Part 1 can be found here and Part 2 here.)

When I launched my Retirement Laboratory experiment earlier this summer, I committed to following the data wherever it led. I wanted to see if stepping back to a 20-hour work week would create enough space to see what might arrive next.

What I didn’t fully anticipate was just how quickly, and joyfully, the evidence would mount.

During these past several weeks, I leaned into the part-time aspect of my work and was especially deliberate about how I used my extra freedom. No real surprise, but something quiet and powerful shifted. The extra time on the clock didn’t feel like empty hours to fill; it felt like life turning its volume back up. I found so much genuine fun, deep meaning, and unexpected clarity in the space I had cleared that the ongoing internal debate resolved itself.

The conclusion wasn’t forced. It simply arrived.

Today – August 14th – marks a milestone on two distinct fronts. It’s my birthday, a day that always invites a bit of honest reflection on time, growth, and the runway ahead. It also happens to be my very last day in the world of W-2 employment. Closing one chapter on the exact day I start a new personal year feels less like a coincidence and more like a gentle nudge from the universe to align my calendar with my values. Those who really know me appreciate the fact that this was no accident, and some might argue it was inevitable. 

Stepping away from the comfort of a regular paycheck and a traditional corporate role can feel daunting if we define ourselves by what we do. But when we anchor our identity in who we are and who we want to be for the people around us, the transition stops feeling like a leap into the unknown. It feels like stepping onto higher ground.

Moving forward, my calendar won’t be shaped by default meetings or priorities set by someone else’s agenda. Instead, I’m intentionally pouring my energy into the foundational pillars that mean the most to me:

  • Family: Being fully present in the moment, available for the people who matter most, without a background hum of work tasks competing for attention.
  • Health & Vitality: Honoring the gift of energy through daily movement, active recovery, and the discipline of staying fit for life’s adventures.
  • Fulfillment & Contribution: Channeling decades of experience into community engagement, coaching and mentoring others as they navigate their own growth, and embracing active travel to keep learning from new horizons.

I no longer see leaving traditional employment as stepping back or calling it quits. I see it as stepping up to a different kind of presence. It’s choosing contribution over title, relationships over busyness, and intention over routine.

With great regularity and maybe too often, I tell people that my career was over the day I left the Navy. Ever since that date, I have focused on doing jobs. Jobs that let me be surrounded by fun, energetic, passionate people while doing meaningful work.

That will remain a continued theme in my life with even more discretion and ownership. 

The experiment was a success, not because it answered every question about the future, but because it proved a simple truth: when you dare to clear the space, the right things will always fill it.

Thank you for following along on this journey. This particular experiment is officially closed. Now, it’s time to live the results.

  • What is currently holding you back from making space for what truly matters in your current season of life?
  • If you removed your professional title today, how would you define your primary contribution to the people around you?
  • What is one intentional step you can take this week to trade routine busyness for genuine fulfillment?

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